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Welcome to The Inner Peace Zone. The Inner Peace Zone is my diary of my poetry and other self-expressions. All the pictures on the blog are self-photography unless where stated otherwise. Any resemblance to any picture on the web is pure coincidence. I hope you enjoy reading The Inner Peace Zone. Love & Peace, Rosy Kaur

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The Love Child

They say I am just a leaf But I tell you, it is my belief... That I am The Love Child of my Universe You see, Sun - my father, never ...

RELATING AT THE END OF A RELATIONSHIP


Relating (as per dictionary) means connecting/linking.

When a relationship ends, it is time to:
  •  REMEMBER the good times spent together whether in a personal or professional relationship;
  • FEEL one’s anger/disappointment/loss/sadness/pain without lashing it out at the other or at oneself. 
  • To become AWARE that since the relationship began, along the way, both parties have grown intrinsically.
-       Both have grown at a different growth rate.
-       Both have grown in different directions.
-       Both have newer goals/aspirations/needs etc.
-       Both deserve the freedom to choose their path.

Different growth patterns is the real reason for separation, regardless of what other reasons one may think of.


End of one thing, can be beginning of something more fulfilling.


Life is a journey whereby nothing is permanent.  Everything that begins automatically has an ending.


If one understands that separation grants the opportunity for self-exploration; then separation can be looked at as a blessing, instead of a curse.


At the end of the relationship both can make a conscious choice of RELATING:
  • Both can choose to become aware of good times, and express gratitude to each other and to the Universe for initially having brought them together to experience joy or to learn their lessons.
  • Both can feel their anger/disappointment/loss/sadness/pain without blaming each other/others/circumstances.
  • If possible, both can offer to assist the other to deal with anger/disappointment/loss/sadness/pain, and the other can accept assistance only to the extent to which the other feels comfortable.
  • Both can chose to stand apart and feel their own feelings, and set the other free.
  • Letting go of the other is also setting yourself free of the other.
  • In the event when one party is finding it difficult to let the other go; despite that feeling, giving space to the other can help.
  • Parting with an awareness that both are on their individual self-development path, and ready to explore/learn/adapt the new life, opens new pathways within oneself, and in the external life.
One can now RELATE to the Universe through ONESELF.


Consciously accepting, endings and opening up to newer beginnings is the Journey of RELATING/CONNECTING/LINKING with the HIGHER SOURCE.


LINKING with the HIGHER SOURCE is the PURPOSE of every SOUL.


The Soul constantly grants me Relating/Linking opportunities.  All I have to do is remain aware of them, and use them when they arrive.


I can relate with the Universe at any time.  
With Love & Peace, ~Rosy Kaur. 16.12.2011.
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